..turn up the heat..

Hey..

not a very long post today, but I REALLY don't have anything to do now that I have no exams and essays to do so I've been adding stuff to my blog.. well, not really.. but I have added one of those music thingies... just to get everyone into the mood for my upcoming posts ;) haha.. It is a classic song... and is definitely good for setting tha mood *hehe* Enjoy.

..And for all of you who would rather something that is more.. tamer, sweeter... here are a few things that a few actors have said to "What makes a man fall in love?" - a lil self esteem booster for us women.. and to remind us that men can actually be pretty sweet... which is why we fall for them in the first place ;) hehe {courtesy of Glamour magazine (lol)}:

Harry Connick Jr, musician: "The question isn't 'what?' it's 'how much?' No, really, the question is 'who?'. And all of the 'whats' that make up the 'who' are why you fall in love."

Matthew McConaughey: "When you're living and breathing a woman. You know every moment would be better if you were with them. You can't sleep because you can't wait to wake up i the morning to see them or you can't sleep because they're in bed with you and you don't want to go to sleep. Guys do this too, you know."

**Alain de Botton, Philosopher and auther of Essays in Love: "...Why do men often find something attractive in the awkward features of a woman's body or psychology, in precisely those areas where the woman herself would never expect to be appreciated? Because these small irregularities in a woman are a sign of her vulnerability and therefore a promise of intimacy - so become attractive. The gappy teeth, moles, scars or ugly pyjamas are gateways to a more private person - they are the unusual but indispensable gateways to a woman's soul."

**Alex James, musician: "Men are always falling in love. We can't help it. Falling in love is not a rational process. There is something about it that will always remain slightly out of control, and that is mainly because of the other person. Love is not something you can really ever have a plan or even an idea for. The only thing that's for sure is that once the ball is rolling, the more you give, the more you get back. There's only one thing that really makes a man fall in love with a woman and it's the woman herself, the whole thing - worries, weaknesses, warts and all."


..*sigh* so the next time you're feeling crap.. or think that your man doesn't love you or doesn't think you're good enough.. chances are... that it's probably the entire opposite.. ;) So let's forget all our shortcomings and know that those who love us, love us purely because of those shortcomings... whether its your man, or just a friend ;)

Enjoy today people.. bring in your comments, participate.. and let's turn up the heat ;) xx